NEW! A MIGHTY CASE AGAINST WAR:

What America Missed in U.S. History Class and What We (All) Can Do Now

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A Mighty Case Against War begins with a startling account of America's wars, looks at why war sells, and exposes the fallacies of some of our most influential justifications for war. Beckwith does not side-step the tough questions: What about Hitler? And genocide? If not war, then what?

Given military technology, the power to destroy is greater than at any time in human history. Beckwith proposes that our culturally supported, deeply entrenched system of governmental violence is simply too costly, destructive, counterproductive, and inhumane to leave unchallenged. An easily readable book, this is a resource for youth and adult education, peacebuilding activists, and all who have wondered if a world beyond war could be possible. "Download Free Bookmark"

"With clear, thoughtful prose and careful research, this book offers a systematic investigation into American wars and various nonviolent alternatives. The author shows U.S. military actions with new perspectives. The heart of the book is "a gallop" through America's 15 wars, not counting the "secret" wars. It is here that the author's training as a mediator shows, for she carefully considers the views of both sides before considering possible alternatives to war. Particularly interesting are her discussions of nonviolent alternatives to World War II and the American Revolution. The book concludes with a series of chapters that address various justifications for war that are commonly invoked. The author writes in an accessible way about these complex issues, making this book ideal for high school students interested in a view of U.S. history not presented in the textbooks, as well as any reader concerned about the role of the U.S. military in conflicts around the world."
    - Daemion Lee, for Skipping Stones, a Multicultural Literary Magazine

 

Playing War

 

(At your favorite bookstore…)
One hot summer day Luke and his friends decide to play their favorite game of war, using sticks for guns and pine cones for bombs and grenades. When a new child in the neighborhood hesitates to join in and then tells them he has been in a real war in the country where he used to live, the other children start to see their game in a new light.  This is a story of what happens when friendship changes what we think we know, and the difference it makes to do something about it. It provides children a gentle invitation to talk about caring, play, and the ways in which war affects real families, like theirs. Lea Lyon illustrated the book in beautiful watercolors that invite the reader to slip right into the backyard where these kids play.

For more about the book, see the publisher’s website:  http://www.tilburyhouse.com/bookstore/playing-war/ .

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Critical Mass

(Order CRITICAL MASS from Reach and Teach. They also link to a free Download of the LEADER'S GUIDE TO CRITICAL MASS:

 http://www.reachandteach.com/store/index.php?l=product_detail&p=189

With each new report of sexual abuse that comes to light, we long for the means to have prevented it. We ask each other what role education and our schools could have played in prevention, and what we could have done as parents and friends. At last there is resource that involves teens and pre-teens directly and actively, through reading and then discussion and follow-up activities – Critical Mass. What is different about Critical Mass than other YA novels? The book shifts between the viewpoints of three characters – Abe, Trish, and Maggie – allowing the reader an uncommon look into the life of a young man being drawn toward abusing, a young woman who finally decides to speak out about abuse boldly, even though unable to do so in personal terms, and another who shows us the reason it is so important we never give up. Their humor and courage, struggle and pain result in a story of hope that every teen has a right to hear and a right to talk about.


Critical Mass is a powerful tool to confront the reality that an estimated 25% of sex abusers are 17 years of age or younger. We must ask how we are reaching these potential Leader's Guide to  Critical Massabusers. Effective for families, small groups, or entire classrooms, the Leader’s Guide to Critical Mass offers ten reasons for using the book as a prevention tool and follows up with catalysts for discussion, journal handouts, family and school activities that reinforce awareness and resistance skills and at the same time open parent/student communication, sample letters, and more. For those with courage to “rock the boat” of ignorance and denial and include sexual abuse prevention in the school curriculum, Critical Mass is here. We know the boat is already rocking – dangerously for many young people. Your efforts may prevent a young person from being abused or entering the devastating role of abuser. The Leader’s Guide will save hours of preparation in using the book with groups.
Student Novel ISBN 1-930572-25-5
192 pages, soft bound: publisher price $9.95
5-9 books $8.95 10+ $7.95
Leader’s Guide ISBN 1-930572-26-3  - WAS $11.95; Reach and Teach offers free for downloading, for use with the novel.


Don't Shoot

(Order the following two books from this website, by contacting Kathy for further information; specify book(s) wanted.)


Don't Shoot! We May Both Be on the Same Side. See your students really use violence prevention skills at school. Skits and role plays, games, drawing, writing, making story-related crafts, and keeping a scrapbook are used to teach violence prevention skills in grades 3-6.
Curriculum Guide - $24.95, includes audio taped theme song

 

 

 

If You Choose Not to Hit. Conflict is a part of life. That's true for all of us, including kids. When children realize they have the CHOICE and can decide how to react and how to resolve conflict, they can become powerful problem-SOLVERS. Children can learn a better way of problem-solving if they are encouraged to do it, shown how to do it, and see that it really works. In this delightfully illustrated book, elementary age children will find other kids who deal effectively and positively with real-life, challenging examples of conflict. The author also treats us to rollicking rhyme and a cast of charming animal characters which combine to make the learning fun. The book's twelve powerful skills are clearly explained so children can use them immediately. Kids can CHOOSE not to hit, fight, name-call, or hurt back in other ways, and they certainly don't have to ignore the problem! This book can change childrens' lives.
Picture Book ISBN 978-1-930572-09-6
48 pages, soft bound $9.95

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A parrot is a tool? No, but it is a reminder of the #1 top communication tool that helps us really listen to others. Parrots repeat what they hear. We don’t “parrot back” what someone has said, but we do “Bounce Back” for them. We listen and then put in our own words, sincerely, what we’ve just heard them say. That keeps us from responding defensively or in anger. It also lets us make sure we’ve heard correctly, and it lets the other person know we’re listening and want to understand their viewpoint. That changes things!


Instead of saying, “Come on! I was only ten minutes late. It couldn’t have been that big of a deal!” you can Bounce Back what they said: “So when I was late, you were worried that I might not show at all, and you were counting on me to be there to help you set up the display?” Give them a chance to say more. Keep listening and Bouncing Back until you know they feel understood. I keep a paper parrot on my kitchen wall to help me remember to Bounce Back instead of Pounce Back.